The Sun Is Shining

weekend july 23, 2016 (1)

Sending some beautiful sunshine your way!

Hope your weekend is filled with joy and happiness. Enjoy yourself no matter what the circumstances may be! Life was meant to be happy so go ahead and spread your wings.

Fly in the sunshine my sweet butterflies; the sun is shining!

Thanks for your friendship.

From me to you…

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#oneloVe…Dehan

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Stop Searching For What Was Not Said

Disagreement quote

Some people are not very good at expressing themselves.

Is it because they do not understand that expressing themselves is about the other person and not them?

Some of them really do not care how their messages might affect others and because they are so self-centered they do not pay attention to the words that spring forth from their lips. They just do not care.

But what they fail to understand is that the moment they stop caring about other people’s feelings is the moment they stop trying to express themselves in an amicable way. Sometimes too, it is so hard to believe that their messages are sincere because it seems more of a criticism rather than sincerity.

Let’s say for example, you have a disagreement with someone and both of you are trying to work things out, but no matter what you say it seems as though the other person’s mindset is tune into negativity. So guess what that person does?

Instead of realizing that the essence of the conversation is to put an end to the disagreement, he/she will look for what was not said just to get something to vex about. So you are left feeling as though you should just shut up and keep quiet. But if you don’t talk they become more upset and if you talk they will still be upset.

So what do you do?

You might as well just keep talking because we can disagree for the rest of our lives but we can never stop talking.

People need to realize that communication is about listening and understanding instead of trying to prove who is wrong or right. In good communication we see the other person’s point of view as well as ours.

Furthermore, communication is not about YOU and I, it’s about us. So let us try to be understanding with each other, treat others the way we would like them to treat us, stop searching for what was not said and listen, listen, listen!

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#oneloVe…Dehan

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Why Does The Wicked Prosper, despite their wicked ways?

Wicked people quoteSome people have everything they wish for despite their wickedness. What a pity!

And it seems as though they live a life without pain, without heartaches and without struggles, despite their wickedness.

Yes their lives seem perfect! They have everything their hearts desire, despite their wickedness.

And then we wonder why God allow these people to prosper, while you and I who are trying to live a virtuous and righteous life have to struggle hard for everything. Continue reading Why Does The Wicked Prosper, despite their wicked ways?

Make Sure That You Laugh Today

Psalms of David quote

Yes, we all know that we are not here to stay.

We also know that we are just dust! From dust we were form and to dust we shall return!

Therefore, it’s time for us to start living our life to the fullest and stop wasting time on things that doesn’t matter….those little things.

Enjoy every minute; every moment of your life. Laugh hard, pray constantly, shout, sing, cry and everything else that you do make sure you are happy.

Most of all, ensure that you laugh today because with a blow of the wind you and I can disappear….just like that.

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#oneloVe…Dehan

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Wisdom For Life

Quote on wisdom and money

It is wonderful to be wise!

Money is very important and beneficial to us as we go through life but wisdom is even better because without wisdom we wouldn’t be able to manage our lives wisely.

What do you say?

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#oneloVe…Dehan

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Are You Aware Of The Beauty In Your Life?

Quote about life and beauty

When you truly learn to appreciate the beauty of your life you will notice that your life will improve.

There are thousands of things that surround us and for which we should be grateful …we just need to look.

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#oneloVe…Dehan

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